Happy regular ol’ day between two feasts!
Today I want to share some photos from the Hooley and also share why we have parties (aside from the obvious reason of us being pretty cool).
The husband and I got married, went on our honeymoon, and then immediately moved from San Diego to Northern California so that he could start business school. Almost immediately after that, we were expecting our first baby. The summer that Jack was born, a lot of things changed. I went from working gal to stay-at-home mom (and no one was more surprised than I was), and we moved from married student housing to family housing.
|Unfortunately, Bobby’s trap didn’t catch a leprechaun either.
It felt like we made a social move as well, from our married couple friends, most of whom both worked, to friends that had kids, and mostly a mom who stayed home.
|But he left us some (chocolate) gold coins.
We wanted to stay connected to both groups, but still focus on our new little family.
|He also made some mischief (that’s our kitchen table UPSIDE DOWN!).
So we started the Tierney Family Dinner Series. We invited one or two couples or families over once a week for dinner. We got to interact socially with grownups AND put the baby to bed at a reasonable time. We had some really great times.
|Hooley time! Grown up food = corned beef sandwiches,
cheesy potatoes, cole slaw, Irish flag jello,
Irish cheeses, fruits & veggies.
|Kid’s table = tater tots, chicken nuggets, sweet potato
fries, pirate booty, grapes, oranges, and peas.
And we soon realized that there was more benefit to it than that. We realized that we were really evangelizing people, just by entertaining them.
|We also had plenty of treats.
They got a peek inside how our family functions, from inside our home. We got to share hospitality and food and leisurely conversation. Conversation that often drifted to important topics.
|These two were neck and neck for best-dressed . . .
|until THIS guy showed up!
I am convinced that my Catholic faith is True. I am also convinced that it’s really, really fun. We have fasts, but we also have feasts (A LOT more feasts than fasts, by the way).
So now, the Tierney Family Dinner Series has morphed into the Tierney Family Guided Tour of Feast Days. We invite people (Catholic and not) to join us as our family celebrates the Marian feast days (usually all white food, or waffles!), St. Patrick (the Hooley), St. Joseph (Pasta alla Tavola), St. George (bangers and mash, knights and ladies), Pentecost (bonfire), St. Michael (no one will let me serve goose, so I serve chicken, and blackberries, and there’s a devil piñata), and the like.
We even invite people to join us for fast and abstinence days.
Sometimes it’s just one family, sometimes it’s nearly two hundred people. But it’s always a lot of fun.
I want my Catholic and non-Catholic friends alike to know that regardless of whether or not the Catholic church can help you get to Heaven (it can), it’s also the best way to truly enjoy the life God has given us on Earth.
Ecclesiastes 3:4 reminds us that there is “a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance.” So we know it’s true because it’s IN THE BIBLE. The Catholic church just goes so far as to tell us which specific dates those times are. Helpful, right?
Jesus uses stories about parties to teach us lessons (the parable of the wedding party; the wise and foolish virgins). And, of course, His own public ministry began AT A PARTY (the wedding feast at Cana) and involved making sure that everyone had enough to drink and no hostesses were embarrassed.
|As advertised, the Hooley had singing . . .
My point being . . . parties are a great way to celebrate feasts and share them with friends. So if you live in Southern California, you should come to our parties. (Or invite us to yours.) And if not, you’re just going to have to throw your own.
|and dancing . . .
Keep it simple, keep it light, keep it fun, keep it moving. I have more thoughts on HOW to throw parties, but those will have to wait for another time. Update: you can now find those thoughts here.
|and carrying on.
Because it’s been a busy day. And because this is the last photo: